Father's Day

My father was a quiet man. Although he offered few words, he had a hardy recognizable laugh. The most advice he ever gave me was when I got on the bus to join the Army. His counsel, “Don’t volunteer.” Meaning, if a Sergeant is looking for a volunteer, don’t. His only other recommendation was, keep a good credit rating. Both suggestions have served me well.

In other ways, he quietly supported my interests. He came to band concerts and took me to solo contests.

Didn’t tell me what direction to take my life. Also, although I did play basketball and football, not well, but I was on the team. He never attended a game. His favorite pass time was fishing; he passed on to me his passion for the simple pleasures of patience, being in nature, and taking pleasure in the catch.

More can be said, but that’s enough to honor a well remembered father on his day.